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The world of self-help, personal development, law of attraction and so forth offer a lot of great knowledge about making the most out of our lives. However sometimes, if not often we can get lost in thinking too much about how to live our lives that we develop restlessness. All these teachings are aimed at helping us to feel good and getting what we want.

The problem is that we end up trying too hard to figure everything out and consequently push ourselves away from progress. This is because we are trying to replicate concepts that are taught, instead of using a set of tools to live them. If we get stuck in this state of mind, we just want to forget about everything. This is because the process has been overtaken by the ego which then tries to control everything and removes us from our true spiritual power. As a consequence we can steer off our path to personal success and enlightenment.

The solution is to have a set of tools and exercises that distract the ego, as well as an awareness of how the ego gets its power. Then we can stay on track with our journey to personal freedom and success. Most importantly, personal freedom is most powerful when we can free ourselves from our egos.

The wisdom teachings are great, as they give us an awareness of where to start. For example the concepts of the law of attraction gives us an awareness that can lead to completely change our lives. Let’s take the two fundamental principles, first, we create our reality therefore we are responsible for it, second if we change our thoughts/feelings we can change our reality. Just understanding this can take us halfway to where we want to go but unfortunately it cannot take us all the way. It is a big step because we can prevent ourselves from creating a lot of suffering in our lives as we stop blaming other people and outside circumstances for our pain. This leads us to become more aware of our own thoughts and beliefs. We can learn to change some of them by this awareness alone but after a little while we will stop progressing.

This is because there is a whole other world in learning about changing our thoughts, feelings, emotions and beliefs. The good news is that there is a great set of tools we can learn to help us get there, and as we do so, we can see the wisdom teachings for ourselves, through a certain order within our own process. Then our path becomes different; we seek wisdom teachings to reassure what we are learning which empowers us versus trying to figure out what the wisdom teachings mean. In essence it becomes about feeling the teachings versus having the ego trying to figure everything out from the teachings. As we know, trying to figure everything out from the teachings only ends up taking us away from them because the whole point of everything is to feel and be present in one moment at a time.

A great place to apply this is in our relationships! When we work on ourselves the right way, it becomes much easier to find love or accept love whether we are in a relationship or not. Our connection to love is one of our most basic needs, as we work on this first, all other aspects of our lives will start to flourish.

I have written a short manuscript to help understand the process of learning to become more present in our lives along with several tools to help you live it. I also work as a theta healer to help you recognize and change the beliefs that are holding you back while giving you the ones that you need to move forward.  You can order it here or get it for free if you book a session with me.

Matthew Butcher




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